Maybe you are a successful career woman who knows her way around the professional world. You are comfortable running a business, leading large groups or employees, and engaging with top notch businessmen and women. In essence, you have your business mastered and you rock it! But…maybe, like so many successful women, you have NOT mastered your love life. Even though you deeply desire that extraordinary love, you find yourself with a string of failed relationships. Are you in the endless cycle of love, then break-up, and then repeat?
Most of us have experienced periodic moments of not liking our jobs. That is normal and to be expected with the ups and downs of any job. But, did you know the latest Gallup polls indicate that 70% of full time employees in the United States are NOT engaged in their jobs, with many in that 70% actually “hating their jobs.” Talk about an epidemic!
Having just celebrated the Fourth of July, Independence and Freedom are still fresh on my mind.
Let’s consider Freedom…the ability and opportunity to live as one chooses—to make choices for oneself. These choices may surround our laws or our country. But we also have choices about our individual lives-- what we study, our chosen education, and career choices…And the freedom to choose those people we wish to make significant partners. These are choices we make repeatedly throughout our lives.
For some, this seems utterly unrealistic. They think that work is purely work and that is how we make a living, and that loving what you do is not a factor in the equation. WRONG!
Did you know that doing what you love is the very best way to ensure your success and make a quantum leap in earnings? It is true that when doing what you love, you are more eager and resolute about putting in the work, and then, the income follows. The first step is to dig deep and figure out what you love to do. Here’s how:
Happiness…that intangible state of being…What exactly is it…and how do we get it?
Happiness is not a guarantee. It is something we create and maintain. And beyond that, it is most certainly a mindset--it is a choice we make each and every day.
Happiness is not just that elated feeling of bouncing from one joyful moment to the next. It is more than just a positive feeling. It is a sense of elation and fulfillment that comes from living a good life that is grounded in meaning and heartfelt satisfaction.
A mentor can be many things. He/she can be a person that you go to for tips to navigate your business, and an adviser or guide to give you support and guidance, knowledge and wisdom so that you can be the best at your profession and create the career you long for. The biggest benefit of a mentor is that he/she can help you get in the fast track lane to expedite your learning process and career success.
One of my favorite pastimes is to watch the color trends as they emerge, beginning in fashion, and leading to architecture, interior design, and home décor. Pantone has announced the color of the year for 2017, and - drum roll please, it is...
Do you feel overwhelmed by never-ending clutter? Whether it is a cluttered desk, a cluttered closet, for us gals a cluttered purse, or for any of us a cluttered mind…clutter can inundate and engulf us. It seems to slowly creep into our lives without us even realizing what is happening. It becomes apparent at certain times like when we are selling or turning in our lease on a car (and trying to clear our stuff out), or digging around in our big fashionista bag for our keys, or when it is nearing tax time and all the receipts and files you need are in cluttered disarray. You know what I’m talking about...
This week it’s all about PERSEVERANCE, defined as “determined continuation; steady and continued action or belief, especially despite difficulties or setbacks.” Truthfully, that is a key ingredient to making things happen – making a dream you have into the reality you want. We saw some of that in the Super Bowl last weekend. Though they were seriously falling behind and could have succumbed to defeat, Tom Brady and the Patriots persevered… and succeeded.
Human beings by nature do not particularly like change. We like to stick to what we know, what is familiar, what we have become comfortable with, and what can be predicted with little to no surprise. For this reason, we can be resistant to change, and that may very well be at the heart of why New Year’s resolutions don’t typically stick.
I have often said that buildings have a soul. As architects, we breathe life into the spaces that we design, and from there the building or space interacts with each visitor, creating a memorable and heightened experience. If buildings have a soul, then it makes sense that their soul has a personality too. Right?